redefining intimacy

I guide people from being ‘HUMAN DOINGS’ to ‘HUMAN BEINGS’—teaching them the difference between performance and existence

I help people with…mismatched libido, body image issue, performance anxiety, routine and monotony.

I remind people that sex, penetration, and intimacy are not synonyms.

Sexology isn’t about selling toys, tantric shit, or chasing 20 ways to climax. It’s not about techniques, tips, or tricks. It’s not sensationalist or mechanical. But I’d certainly be richer if I agreed to reduce it to entertainment, oversimplify its depth, or market it as a quick-fix solution.

People want surface-level solutions to deep and complex problems. They want “Amazon Prime Solutions” to problems they’ve had for decades. They want to talk about their love language and lingerie, instead of tackling chronic low self-worth or crippling existential anxieties. What am I, a magician? And why do so many people view sex as something completely disconnected from their deepest self?

For me, sexology is a spiritual journey—helping fragile humans reconnect and embrace vulnerability.

How can one expect to have a great sex life when most of us are alienated from nature, from others, and, most importantly, from ourselves?

Men know the feeling of craving connection but having no one to turn to. They open their laptop, watch a staged film, and finish with a tissue—physically relieved but emotionally emptier.

Women know the feeling of engaging not out of visceral desire but out of guilt. They keep an internal calendar, "dutifully" ticking off boxes. Silently waiting for it to be over, they follow a lifelong script where the focus has always been on someone else’s pleasure, not their own.

Sex is innately linked to LOVE. For both men and women, the greatest aphrodisiac is simply being in love. 

Sex is not something you do, it’s somewhere you go (with your trusted partner).